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My
name is Rebecca Fox.
In the year 2004 I found out I was pregnant and
on December 20,2004 I found out it wasn't just
one baby there were two. To make things even
more interesting it was boy / girl twins. My
fiance and I were very excited about the multiple
blessings joining our lives. In my fiance's family
there hasn't been a girl in approximately 5
generations unless they have been adopted.
Well
as time went on our little blessings decided
they were going to make their entrance into
the world one to remember they were two and a
half months early. The babies were in a lot of
danger because of their size. I had pre-term
labor Jamie's' placenta erupted I had started
the day off on the wrong foot I had contractions
and the hospital had tried to stop my labor and
everything they tried didn't work or it did for
a short time and my labor started all over again.
To my surprise my babies were born on 03/04/05
at 1:19am was Jamie(girl) and at 1:20am Joseph(boy)
were born as small little miracles my emergency
c-section was very scary and I would not want
anyone to go threw what I've been threw.
So
as they grew little at a time Jamie has some
complications she wasn't urinating enough so
I had to take her to Riley Children's Hospital.
when she was 15 days old and all of the staff
there said don't expect an answer tomorrow don't
expect an answer in the next couple of days,
but to my dismay they had an answer the very
next day the nerphrologist had some answers.
She told me my daughter wasn't going to make
it if she lived more than the next few days would
be longer than expected. So I called my fiance
and he rushed down with the help of my grandfather
because I had his car in Indianapolis. We made
a decision to bring her back home so her family
could be with her and give her the proper good
bye.
Jamie
live for 1 month and 6 days, while her twin brother
came home 1 month and 4 days after their birth,
everybody says she held on long enough to make
sure her brother was going to make it. The day
she passed away I had been home from seeing her
about 30 minute, when the hospital called we
rushed up to the hospital to be with as she passed
it is still a very painful experience they did
the best they could to comfort her and her father
held her for her last breathes, we sat there
and cried holding our deceased daughter and each
other.
As
all of the things I wish I could change I now
as a year has passed wish that we would of tried
something but all of the doctors said with her
condition " MULTICYCSTIC
DYSPLASIC" that
it is never worked on someone her size
2lbs9ozs so it is very probable that she
won't make it. So instead of putting her
threw all of that we let her take her own
course in life yes our decision hurts everyday
as I watch her twin grow. I want her to know
not a day passes that we don't think of her
and wonder how she would look.
Our
love for her always is with us so please enjoy
my story of love about our angel Jamie Lynn
Glover. Thank
you for helping me and people like me with sadness
because of tragedy of our children.
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